I am an Implant sister in Oklahoma City. Tony is on of my very best friends and so close to my heart. He told us about your dear husband and son. I wanted to extend my warmest thoughts and prayers for you and yours during these difficult times ahead.We never will understand why something like this happening. The only thing to do is lean on each other, love each other and the main thing stay strong in the Lord and know that he Loves you and he Loves your son and husband and it was time for time for him to go home to be with our Lord now matter how hard and how much we hate to hear those words. And I know you would like to slap me right now for saying those words probably. But please whatever you do. Hang on to our Father and remember he said the In his house there are mansions and if it was not so he would have told us, a place where we will all be together someday, this is not the last time you will see him, you will see him again when your bodies have put on immortality to be with the Lord. The Lord tells us that we will be known as we are known. Not as husband and wife or male or female. But our personality will still shine thru and your husband will know you and you will know him. How much The Lord allows I do not know.